Are you thinking about returning to work or need a change but feeling uncertain? Do you truly know what you want to do next? Often, the first step toward clarity isn’t just identifying what you don’t want—it’s understanding what aligns with who you are and what brings out the best version of yourself. True self-discovery means recognizing the difference between fear-based avoidance and authentic disinterest.
Understanding What’s Truly Not You
It’s easy to say, “I don’t want to do that,” but sometimes, what we really mean is, “That doesn’t align with who I am.” Fear can be sneaky, disguising itself as practical decision-making, but so can inauthentic choices that don’t serve your growth. The key is to differentiate between avoiding something out of fear and recognizing it simply isn’t for you.
Here’s a simple exercise: Think of a job or career path you’ve considered but dismissed. Ask yourself:
Does this align with my strengths and values?
Am I avoiding this due to fear or because it doesn’t bring out my best self?
Does this decision reflect my true aspirations or societal expectations?
Recognizing Fear vs. Self-Discovery
Fear often sounds like:
“I’m too old/young to start over.”
“I don’t have enough experience.”
“What if I fail?”
“People will judge me.”
True self-discovery, on the other hand, feels like:
“This career excites me and aligns with who I am.”
“I feel energized thinking about this possibility.”
“I know I will grow and thrive in this path.”
Moving Toward Your Authentic Path
If fear is the only thing holding you back, the best way forward is to take small, intentional steps. If something simply isn’t for you, embrace that clarity and move toward what resonates:
Identify Your Strengths and Values – Reflect on what excites and energizes you.
Take a Small Step – Try a course, network with like-minded individuals, or explore a new path with curiosity.
Reframe Your Mindset – Instead of “I can’t,” try “I’m learning what truly fits me.”
Get Support – A self-discovery coach (like me!) can help you navigate this journey with clarity and confidence.
My 12-Week Self-Discovery Program
If you're ready to step into your true path, my 12-week self-discovery program is designed to help you uncover what truly aligns with your strengths and values. Through guided coaching, practical exercises, and deep introspection, you'll gain the confidence and clarity to move forward.
Here’s what past clients have said:
“Kim is amazing at what she does. Just the one-hour consultation I signed up for prior to the coaching made me realize I am in the best possible hands. I not only wanted but also needed to work with her. The way she leads her sessions makes me feel like I am given a helping hand all the way. I wish I had worked with her years ago.” - Katja
“Receiving coaching from Kim has been a life-changing experience. I found Kim to be excellent at encouraging me to follow my dream career. Her support has been invaluable in conquering challenges and acknowledging successes. My self-confidence has significantly improved, and this has had a huge influence on both my personal and professional life. Coaching with Kim has been powerful; when focusing and working on my goals, everything seemed to fall into place, almost effortlessly.”- Kayleigh
The Path Forward
If you’re considering a career shift or return to work, take a moment to reflect. Are you avoiding something because of fear, or are you realizing it doesn’t align with your true self? Awareness is the first step toward making empowered choices that bring out the best in you.
Fear is normal, but it doesn’t have to define your future. The question isn’t whether you feel afraid—it’s whether your choices are leading you to the most authentic version of yourself.
What’s one small step you can take today toward a career that truly reflects who you are?
Your Self-Discovery Coach
Kim
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